Sunday, November 2, 2025

What do you really want? Sunday 11-2-2025

Greetings and salutations, dear Reader, and welcome to this unassuming sliver of cyberspace. It's still a bit before sunrise here on a chilly November morning. Click HERE to read today's Proverb if you like.




When someone approaches me with any topic, as an adult, I am under the assumption that the person who initiated the conversation actually wants to know what I think on the matter. I'm happy to present verifiable, provable facts toward that end - always. And, when I do not have the facts, I'm also very quick and happy to disclose that much as well. After all, none of us knows everything and owning our limitations is actually very freeing. 

I am sick and tired of grown adults who conflate "thinking" with "feeling" and there are many of them these days; our current education system is a sick, pathetic joke of what it was originally intended to be. People are not taught to think anymore, they're now rewarded for brainless histrionics, struggling their way through life wholly bereft of logic, critical thought, and reason, rewarded with various degrees once each professor has been convinced of their student's successful indoctrination.

No wonder the suicide rate is so damned high these days.


But I digress.
If you come and initiate a conversation about politics with me, I very reasonably expect that you are asking for my thoughts on the matter. Am I strange to make the educated guess of as much, or am I supposed to imagine that you're looking for something else?
If so, what exactly is that? You'll have to tell me, because I don't read minds! 

To initiate the conversation and then get upset because my thoughts are not a mere reflection of your own is sabotage, pure and simple. It's evil, cruel, wrong, and not adult in any way, shape, form, OR fashion. Look, here it is: you already KNOW that my beliefs are, in fact, independently MINE and NOT a mere reflection of yours. I thought DIVERSITY was important.
Apparently NOT diversity of THOUGHT. 


So, dear Reader, for the love of all that is right and decent about being a real adult, please do NOT initiate conversations about topics like politics, religion, and the like unless you have enough f***ing maturity to hear thoughts that (gasp!) do not necessarily mirror your own. 
And if you're too fragile and fearful to go there... THEN DON'T. 




Saturday, November 1, 2025

the TDS Epidemic: One Example on Saturday 11-1-2025

Imagine, for a moment, a man who, three decades ago, in the unfiltered haze of a late-night TV spotlight, utters crude remarks to a single woman—comments born of bravado, ego, or the era's casual callousness. It's ugly, yes; it stings the soul and echoes the flaws we all carry, magnified by power.

cute; NOW DO THIRTY YEARS!!!



Now picture that same man, years later, stepping onto the world stage not with bluster, but with brokerage: forging the Abraham Accords, drawing ancient enemies—Israel and the UAE, Bahrain, Sudan, Morocco—into a fragile but real embrace of peace. Missiles that once flew in fury now gather dust; economies entwine where hatred once festered. Trade blooms, terror plots wither. A region, scarred by centuries of strife, inhales its first tentative breath of coexistence.


And yet, here we stand: fixated on that one faded soundbite from the literal 1990's, a relic from a bygone broadcast, while the handshakes of reconciliation—those quiet miracles of diplomacy—elude our gaze. Why? Is it easier to clutch the ghost of offense, a tidy villain in our narrative, than to wrestle with the complexity of redemption? Or does it shield us from admitting that people, even presidents, can stumble spectacularly and still stumble toward something sacred?



Consider this, friend: What if your worth were eternally chained to your worst whisper from youth, while your boldest bridge-building went unseen? Would that illuminate truth, or merely eclipse it? Hatred for the former, indifference to the latter—it's not just selective memory; it's a self-inflicted blindness, trading the arc of history for a single echo. Profoundly stupid, yes, because it starves the soul of growth, of grace. But here's the spark: lift your eyes. See the man who erred, yes, but also the maker of peace. In that seeing, perhaps the light flickers on—not excusing the past, but embracing the possible. What might change if we did?



Let’s sharpen the lens further, friend, and expose the deeper rot beneath that selective outrage: the deliberate collapse of a foundational truth—feelings are not thoughts—engineered through decades of Marxist-influenced sabotage in what we once called schools, now better named indoctrination centers. This isn’t conspiracy; it’s documented history, and ignoring it keeps the light off.

The Factual Distinction: Feelings ≠ Thoughts

  • Thoughts are cognitive processes: propositions, evaluations, inferences, subject to logic, evidence, and falsification. Example: “Trump said X in 1995” → verifiable via tape. “The Abraham Accords reduced regional conflict” → measurable via decreased missile launches (Israel-UAE: 0 since 2020, per IDF data) and $1.2B+ in bilateral trade (U.S. State Dept, 2024).
  • Feelings are affective states: visceral, subjective, non-propositional. Example: “I feel disgusted by Trump’s words” or “I feel hopeful about peace.” Valid as experience, but not truth-claims. They describe you, not reality.

Verified Expert Consensus:

  • American Psychological Association (APA) Dictionary (2020): “Emotion: a complex reaction pattern… not equivalent to cognition.”
  • Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett (Northeastern University, How Emotions Are Made, 2017): “Emotions are constructed predictions, not hardwired reactions. They are not thoughts, though they influence them.”
  • Dr. Paul Ekman (pioneer in facial expression research): “Basic emotions (anger, disgust) are universal responses, but the interpretation of events as ‘offensive’ is learned—i.e., cultural, not logical.”

The Marxist Sabotage: Documented, Deliberate, Devastating

This distinction was standard in Western education until the 1960s–70s, when Critical Pedagogy—rooted in Paulo Freire and Herbert Marcuse (Frankfurt School)—infiltrated teacher training.

  • Freire’s Pedagogy of the Oppressed (1968): Rejects “banking education” (facts, logic) for “problem-posing” rooted in felt oppression. Truth becomes subjective; logic is “oppressor tool.”
  • Marcuse’s Repressive Tolerance (1965): Argues intolerant speech (e.g., Trump’s style) must be suppressed not by argument, but by feeling-based censorship. Logic = violence; emotion = justice.
  • Outcome: By 1980s, U.S. ed schools (e.g., Columbia Teachers College) adopted “affective education” curricula. Example: California’s 1990s “Self-Esteem Task Force” taught “feelings are facts” to boost minority performance—it failed spectacularly (Twenge, Generation Me, 2006).

Hard Evidence of Collapse:

  • NAEP Long-Term Trend (1971–2020): Critical reading scores flatlined post-1975 despite funding tripling. Why? Shift from logic-based reading (phonics, inference) to “whole language” (feeling-based “connection to text”).
  • PISA 2018 (OECD): U.S. 15-year-olds ranked 13th in reading, 37th in math—behind Estonia. Estonian curriculum? Still teaches logic vs. emotion distinction explicitly.
  • Stanford’s 2021 Civics Study: 68% of U.S. college students said “hate speech” should be illegal—even if factually true. They feel harmed; therefore, speech is harm. Thought = feeling.

The Trump Example: Engineered Stupidity in Action

  • Feeling: “I feel Trump is a monster because of one crude comment.” → Valid emotion. But not a thought. It says nothing about his actions.
  • Thought: “The Abraham Accords failed to reduce violence.” → Falsifiable. It’s false: Hezbollah attacks on Israel dropped 40% post-Accords (INSS Tel Aviv, 2023). UAE-Israel flights: 200+/week. Kosovo recognized Israel. Facts.

Yet indoctrination centers trained a generation to treat feelings as arguments. Result? A voter screams “misogynist!” at a 30-year-old clip, unmoved by peace treaties—because feeling trumps thinking. That’s not passion; it’s intellectual paralysis, weaponized.


What if you demanded evidence before outrage?

What if you asked: “Does my disgust prove wrongdoing, or just my sensitivity?” What if you repented—not of feeling, but of equating feeling with truth?

The light goes on when you separate the two, name the sabotage, and reclaim your mind. Until then, you’re not “moral”—you’re manipulated.

Wednesday, October 22, 2025

It's Always Something - on Wednesday, October 22nd, 2025

On this warm October afternoon, I sit in a small border town, just a stone’s throw from Mexico, to share a few thoughts. The sun casts a gentle glow, and I’m reminded of the simple joys—like the arrival of dear friends’ relatives who drove into town yesterday to visit. Their presence brings warmth to an already full heart, even amidst life’s challenges.



You’ve likely heard the saying, “When it rains, it pours.” Today, that feels truer than ever. I’m navigating a whirlwind of responsibilities: assisting someone with sensitive legal matters I can’t discuss, and preparing to call the hospital tomorrow to dispute a denied claim for an overnight stay earlier this month—likely due to an ICD-10 coding error. Life isn’t always easy, and I don’t expect it to be a carefree stroll down Easy Street. But sometimes, when the flames of life’s challenges rise higher, I find myself pleading, “Lord, I’m already battling a blaze—please, no more sparks!” 




As Gilda Radner so wisely said, “It’s always something.” And isn’t that the truth? Life’s storms can feel relentless, but dear reader, if you’re weathering your own tempests, know this: we can find peace in the eye of the storm. That peace isn’t just a fleeting moment—it’s found in the Lord, our God, who shoulders burdens too heavy for us to carry alone. Scripture reminds us that Jesus is the Prince of Peace (Isaiah 9:6), not only for the world on a grand scale but also for each of us in our daily struggles. Those personal dramas that loom so large? They’re real, and they matter—but to Him, they’re nothing He can’t handle.

Today, as exhaustion tugs at my body, demanding rest more often than I’d like, I’m compelled to share my imperfect, tumultuous circumstances. If I can find peace amid these storms, so can you. Jesus is an ever-present help in times of trouble (Psalm 46:1), just a heartbeat away. Whatever burdens weigh on you today, dear friend, I urge you to carry them to the cross and lay them at His feet. As Jesus promises, “My yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:30). In our hardest moments, He carries us. Lean into His everlasting arms and find your rest.

Lord, we come before You, weary from life’s storms. Grant us Your peace that surpasses understanding, and carry the burdens we cannot bear. Help us trust in Your love and find rest in Your presence. In Jesus’ Name. Amen.



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Thursday, October 16, 2025

Global Resources - Suicide Prevention (October 2025)

Good morning, et cetera, dear Reader, and welcome to this obscure American blog. 

The entire point of this post is to give you a list of resources, currently available world-wide, for Suicide Prevention resources; click here:



This post is the ONE post that I wish, hope, and pray goes viral and I care for no 'credit' or fame whatsoever for simply making this available. The only thing that matters is saving lives! 

If you, or anyone you know, seems as though they're struggling with depression, et cetera, do not hesitate and please seek immediate help as you very well may be saving a life, and that is priceless beyond measure. 

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Friday, October 10, 2025

Growing Up, on Friday October 10th, 2025

Greetings and salutations in the wee hours well before Dawn as I write these words. 


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Yesterday, history was made when both sides of the Israel/Hamas war agreed to the terms of a 20-point plan pursuant to real (and, hopefully, lasting!) Peace. This is the Lord, working in and through the hearts of all involved Who is making this happen, largely through our own President.
This is nothing short of miraculous


I've even confirmed the factual nature of "news" reports by reaching out to a long-time friend of mine in Israel who has confirmed the wonderful claims we've been seeing in the news about this so, at least this time, the media, for once, isn't lying, a welcome and refreshing change, but one that is due to the singular fact that even their global web of liars can't hide this massive truth. Of course, I feel that it will be 'business as usual' (nothing but lies and twisted, false narratives) regarding any and all other matters, unfortunately, but I digress.



Anyway, when I was a kid (and there was some modicum of civility, healthy degrees of national pride, unity, and decorum that remained) I vividly recall that all Americans from both sides of the aisle would unite behind whoever won the presidency, no matter who he or she voted for...back then, at least.


In today's reality, "adults" (people of 18 years old+) act like histrionic, mentally ill children, literally and even deliberately ignoring truth in favor of emotionally-driven, profound stupidity. And that may seem harsh, but think about it for one moment: if an American wants the President of the United States to fail, that means that that person wants our nation to fail and, if that's the case, you're either deeply, profoundly stupid, or just plain evil, period, there is no other factual possibility here, other than perhaps "both". 


Therefore, dear Reader, please: do not be stupid. You have the power to choose for yourselves, or I wouldn't even bother (saying this). Please, ***USE*** the matter currently holding your ears apart and stop allowing yourselves to be driven by every little wave of 'feelings' that come your way! (We used to call it "growing up").

Time to grow up


When we operate based out of literally nothing more than our feelings, we're being ruled not like mature adults govern themselves, but rather the way children behave, led by nothing more or less than mere emotion, usually without anything based in any kind of truth or fact to back those feelings up. May I recommend the early chapters in the Book of James with regard to this very thing (only because it's one of the resources within the Word that I've found helpful with this issue in my own life though I remain very imperfect in this, among many, regards). 

Anyway, it'd be nice if American adults would start acting both American AND adult again, but I have deep and extremely-skeptical views on that.



One more thing is that people need to stop conflating 'intelligence' with the amount of "education" (read: college indoctrination) they've received, whether that be 'some college' to 'multiple doctorate degrees'. 
The smarter a person thinks that they are, the harder and harder they are to teach. Arrogance makes it impossible to learn, and without humility, Wisdom becomes nothing more than an impossible abstract  relegated to the people of ancient times alone.


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Tuesday, October 7, 2025

Cognitive Dissonance on Tuesday, October 7th, 2025

Greetings and salutations (again?) dear Reader, and welcome (back?) to this obscure, American blog where Free Speech is paramount, period, no matter what my own opinion is of what you have to say, to mimic Voltaire, I *will* die for your right to say it! 


About "misinformation" - you mean, LIES
People have been telling them for time ad infinitum and that fact is highly, highly unlikely to change anytime soon. It is incumbent upon you and I, dear Reader, to dig deeper than mere headlines and compare ALL of the information available about any given topic or story and THEN make an informed decision after exploring the stories being put out by EVERY SINGLE SIDE of the aisle, including the middle. 
Look for RECEIPTS: are there videos? photos? documents? numerous, credible witnesses


And THAT, dear Reader, is why so very many people in this modern, crumbling society of today's volatile world refuse to believe what the preponderance of evidence (including their own two eyes!) tells them. No, instead, they double-down, more married to preserving outdated, incorrect opinions in the face of Truth substantiated by facts to the contrary. 


Out of sheer curiosity: how many people has President Trump had arrested because he simply does not like what he/she said? Go ahead, list their names here in the comments... provided you can find even so much as one. You see, dear Reader, above and beyond the profoundly inaccurate claims of the extreme left, a true Fascist would not only arrest every single person who said things that fascist disliked, but the arrested people would then be imprisoned and/or 'unalived' simply for talking.
If you legitmately believe that to be happening in these United States, I'm all ears, so go ahead and list them, as I said earlier, in the comments. Take your time and do a deep dive; not for me, for yourself.
When you have a solid foundation in a belief system that is based on legitimate, factual Truth, then you won't fear hearing what 'the other side' thinks or has to say, because their ideas and words are not instantly perceived as a threat, even if (you believe them to be) inaccurate. No, if what you believe in is truly, really solid, you won't feel 'threatened' by different information one iota. If you're using your ability to truly employ critical thought and logic, then you'll either be able to disprove false claims by way of legitimately diligent research, or you might learn better information than what you believed before. In these politically charged times, it is important not to allow ourselves to be trapped in echo-chambers; for that reason, I value the people whose ideologies differ from mine, from friends, business associates, even relatives. Any and all ire I hold for what has become of the Democratic party in the US is all for those in elected leadership, who know better and deliberately lie and fear-monger to manipulate their constituents. That is NOT acceptable, not now, and not ever. But those of you who are simply rank-and-file voters like myself, no, you're victims of psyops and skillfully engineered propaganda, just like I was, and for so SO many years (in my case and still can be if I'm not very, very careful!)

Though I was a Democrat for most of my life (1979 to 2016), I've actually cast more votes for Libertarian candidates than all of my votes for Democrats and Republicans combined in this life; today, I consider myself a solid centrist, even though I felt that President Trump was the clear choice this last election cycle. In fact, in the previous election cycle (2020), I voted for Jo Jorgensen (and she's a woman!)
 

Anyway, dear Reader, I don't say these things for anyone to do anything performative for me, no. These suggestions are a soft challenge to YOU to gather ALL the available angles and THEN, THEN after hearing it ALL, then it is better to decide what smacks to you of being the most true. And do yourselves the favor, also, of searching for the reciepts as that is so, so very important.
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Monday, October 6, 2025

Bringing the Receipts on Monday, October 6th, 2025

Good morning, et cetera, dear Reader, and welcome to this beautiful day above ground! 
Here is the day's Proverb in text format (and, Biblegateway.com also gives you the option to play the audio as well). 😎


Well, I've decided that I've got too much to do (around home as well as work-wise with Grant Requests coming up in less than a month from today) and am not 'dressing up' every day like I've done basically all of my life. The things I'm doing so far do not require me to 'look professional' so I figure I might as well save money on makeup and let this dry, diabetic skin take a real break from all of that, all while maximizing my time and efforts into required, more productive endeavors for now. Obviously I'll still 'doll up' for business-related meetings and the like, but, for now? My 'every day look' is going to be a shower and clean clothes (and, of course, perfume, haha!) until the time comes that current priorities shift and mandate the requirement of 'looking professional'. I'm just trying to lean in to the Common Sense that I do have while making the most of the time at hand, seeing this shift as meeting the current need head-on.

While my husband was gathering four years of receipts to prove our literally perfect, never late, rental history, he also found this - my COVID-19 shot record:

I've used items to obscure personal information there, but read the date of the last 'vaccination' - August 5th,2021.

That date is three weeks (not two like I recalled incorrectly) prior to my first (of two) heart attacks, medical records for which prove beyond any shadow of doubt that the MI did occur on August 26th of that same year. 


Now, I'm not in the business of telling any sentient adult what to think or how to feel, that's your business. The simple, irrefutable fact of the matter is that I've brought the undeniable, irrefutable receipts to substantiate my claim, and, further, I am only one of numerous victims, many of whom did not survive

Therefore, I will never take any other single 'inoculation' again for the rest of this life, so help me God. I'll go to prison or be 'unalived' first, and you can take that check to any damn bank you want to. So, you can (wrongly, innacurately, or deceptively) call it 'misinformation' all you want, the fact is: